You know how some people live their jobs. They are trying to get ahead, are so ambitious and are willing to do anything it takes. Fair enought. The problem is when they can’t turn off their ambitious self, and be human at least with family and friends. You have to live a lie at work. You don’t have to live a lie 24×7. take a break, be a friend, wife/husband or whatever. don’t be a jerk and think it’s ok to be that way, cos it helps you professionally.