Doll’s Story

R & I took O to Toys ‘r’ Us to buy her (all of 6!) birthday gifts. We veered her away from the Barbies and Barbie-type monstrosities (she has only about 2 dozen of those, and we didn’t buy a single one of it).
And not satisfied with that, we tried to get her to pick up more lifelike dolls. As she tended towards fair-skinned, blond, blue-eyed life-size doll, we convinced her that it was not as nice as the dark-skinned, brown-eyed, black/curly-haired little moppet that stood in a corner. We marketed the doll well, and walked out of the store with that… We tried dinning it into her that this doll was superior to the former. Is that racism? Are we telling her those with fair-skin and light hair/eyes are not good enough?
Or is it positive reinforcement that it takes all kinds to make the world? That the role-models fairy tales and toy-makers push ahead are not the real stuff?
I have to give it to the Americans, though. Be it Barbie, Bratz or any regular doll, they give you a choice of ethnicity to choose from.
What is really appalling is that in India, most dolls are ‘the fair-skinned, blond, blue-eyed’ varieties… now how many in India fit that mould?
I am sure some think I am making a pox out of a pimple.
After all it is just a doll! But it is more than that. It is a child’s first exposure to prejudices.

One thought on “Doll’s Story

  1. Teesu says:

    Hey. nice conscientious move on your part. I agree dolls in India are usually blond and blue-eyed BUT I had one like that — Jennifer, whom I LOVED. Anyway, I feel this might be a slight over-reaction about prejudices, etc. because I liked all kinds of dolls (perhaps, in hindsight, mostly fair-skinned) when I was kutti but always had ‘an eye’ for the dusky (real) peoples…and still do!! Over-pushing your views MAY not be too great either. Perhaps let nature takes its course and step in as and when things get out of hand?? JUST a suggestion…:)Thinking aloud, really.

I would love to hear your feedback. So write to me: umm.of.on@gmail.com

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s